What’d I Miss?!

Happy Sunday, friends! A full four month hiatus- after a three month hiatus- and I’m back. Really, truly back. (Famous last words…) Holy cow, 2017 has been quite the year! Let me catch you up to speed- let’s back up to March.

March 2017

March was a big month! I turned 30 (eek!), spent my birthday at the Wizarding World, and finished up work on “In the Heights” at Davenport North. My next post will be all about my birthday trip, so let me just say- it was an AWESOME month! ITH was one of the best shows I’ve ever worked on, and a truly life-changing experience.

 

April/May 2017

I had some vacation blues after getting back from Florida- which was cured when I took a long weekend trip to Cincinnati to see Danielle and Brad! It was a pretty lazy weekend, which was exactly what I needed. Oh, and there was cake, so that was a plus!

When I got back from my trip…I did a big thing. I gave my notice at the Family Museum. Yes- you read that correctly. After almost ten years, I decided to leave. There were many reasons for my leaving, but the biggest and most important was that I was ready to pursue my passion full time. I was finally brave enough to do it.

One thing I haven’t mentioned yet…I gave notice without having anything lined up. That was/is the scariest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I really can’t explain it, other than I had the sense that everything was going to be ok. And it was.

During my last week with the Museum, I interviewed for and was offered the position of Theatre Coordinator at Davenport Junior Theatre, which is where I’ve spent the last four months. I’ve finally found my perfect fit of a job. Every day, I’m excited to go to work, love what I do, and feel like I’m not only making a huge difference, but am appreciated for doing so. I could gush for hours about all the things I like about my job, but instead, I’ll just say I’m happy. Super, crazy, stupid happy.

Yes, things aren’t always sunshine and roses. I’ve taken a bit of a pay cut, which was hard. Some weeks are tighter than others, but I still have my house, can still pay my bills, and still have money for my biggest indulgence, coffee! While I’m by no means an expert,  I thought I’d share three apps that have really helped, because, let’s face it: everyone likes saving money!

1- Ibotta- here’s how it works: click on the link and get yourself the app. Once you have, you can access and redeem rebates on your groceries, online shopping, and more! I will check out the rebates, match them up with my grocery list, and then redeem them when I get home. All you have to do is snap a picture of your receipt and scan the item’s barcode. EASY! Once you hit $20 (which honestly doesn’t take long), you can send the money to your PayPal or redeem for gift cards. Bam. Also, if you sign up via my referral link, you’ll get $10 after you redeem your first rebate, and I get $5! https://ibotta.com/r/wxeauvg

2-Receipt Hog- download the app, snap a picture of every receipt you accumulate, and let the points roll in! I will say, this one takes a little longer to accumulate, but for how little work it is, I honestly don’t mind.

3- Cartwheel- if you shop at Target as often as I do, you need this. Just trust me.

Summer 2017

So, other than a new job, how did I spend my summer? Well, I kicked it off by watching my ITH cast perform at the Des Moines Civic Center, followed by choreographing my first show at Quad City Music Guild. West Side Story was my most challenging choreography to date, and one of the most rewarding experiences I’ve ever had. I had a mini vacation weekend with my family in Chicago, where I got to see Aladdin, and went back two weeks later to see Hamilton with my North kids. Oh, and I snuck in a garage sale, lots of kitty snuggles, and so much friendship time. All in all, a great summer!

So, there you have. The shortest possible recap of the last six months. Life is good and I am loving the path I’m on. What’s to come? I have no idea, but I can’t wait to find out. Here’s to new adventures, more list adventures, and a happy future.

Until next time,

xoxoxo

 

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My 2016 Greatest Hits

Well hey friends! It’s 2017, and yes, I finally remembered that I have a blog. As has now become the norm, it’s been two months since I last posted (really…is ANYONE surprised?) so I decided to catch you up and recap my 2016 in the most fun way possible. Now, those of you who know me insanely well know how big of a LOST fan I am. One of my favorite episodes is from season 3 and is titled, “Greatest Hits.” I won’t ruin anything for you, because you absolutely should watch LOST if you haven’t, but the episode features highlights from a character’s life. So, I’m doing that…2016 style. Once I made my list, I tried to put it in order, but that was pretty much impossible, so these are my 10 greatest hits from this year, in no particular order…here we go!

  1. Creating my 5 Year Plan

So, the last two years, I’ve created a set of goals for myself for the year. Now, because I’m incapable of half-assing anything related to personal growth, I went a little crazy in 2016 and gave myself 12 goals for the year. Yes, you read that correctly. (And yes, I eventually winnowed that down because I like sleep, and rest, and not constantly doing things.) Anyway, while making my goal list, I realized I didn’t have a five year plan. So, on the list it went. I figured out pretty quickly what kind of things I wanted on the list, and spent the year shaping it and making it into exactly what I wanted it to be…which ironically, takes me into the next thing on my list…

2. Taking a leadership class

I was approached by my boss during the summer about taking a leadership class during Fall 2016. I eagerly accepted but was nervous as hell, because, why not worry about something silly? Anyway, this class has been a game-changer. Not only has it improved my leadership skills at work, I feel like it’s gotten me more in touch with who I am overall. We’ve done personality assessments, strength finders, and even did a 5 year plan visualization activity, which ended with us sketching out what our plan looked like. I ended up framing mine and it’s sitting on my dresser in my room, so I can look at it every day.

3. Dating

Yes. I, Stephanie DeLacy, notoriously single, hates first dates more than cilantro, cat lady extraordinaire…went on dates this year. Lots of them. There were good dates, there were bad dates, and boy, did I learn a lot about me and what I want. It’s truly been an experience and one that I am so glad that I was brave enough to embark on. I met some truly kind men this year, two in particular who were wonderful, and while I ended the year single, I didn’t give up hope. I’m hopeful that 2017 will be my year for love.

4. Getting a Handle on My Anxiety

I’ve never talked about this on here…exactly. But I guess there’s a first time for everything. I’ve always been a little anxious for as far back as I can remember, but this year, I hit a low. Charlee was sick, and my whole “norm” was shaken. I kept telling myself she’d be fine, but I didn’t actually know that. I found myself worrying more in general, and coping less and less well. Eventually, it got to a point where I knew I needed outside help to feel better, and so I got it. I started seeing a mental health counselor in July, and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made in my entire life. My counselor is AMAZING, and has helped me with so many things. It’s refreshing to have someone to talk to that is unbiased, and my overall anxiety level has dropped significantly. It was a scary thing for me to do, but I’m so proud of myself for being brave!

5. Seeing Hamilton

Yes. That. If you want to read more about it, continue to my next post!

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6. Paying off my student loans

Oh yes I did! What a weight off my shoulders! (Oh, and on Friday, I’ll be making my final car payment. HUZZAH!)

7. Choreographing three awesome musicals!

I was lucky enough to get to choreograph for three different places this year- more choreography than I’ve done since I finished teaching dance. Each show was such a great experience, and I am so lucky to have gotten to work with so many wonderful people!

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8. Peter Pan

I had my second directing experience this year, and it was one of my best theatre experiences to date. My cast was incredible, I had the best student director on the planet, and Leslie (the main drama director at North) brought my first-ever scenic design to life, and even better than I imagined! When a show is over, I’m generally sad but ready to be done, but with Peter Pan, I was just sad. What a great show to end 2016 on!

9. The Kids’ Table and Harry Potter Night

It was a big year for me at the Family Museum, but these two events really stood out among everything else. I was a key organizer in the Museum’s first “The Kids’ Table” fundraiser and also organized our “Harry Potter Night” this fall. Both events were hugely successful, and I was so proud to be a part of them.

10. Friendships

This year was huge in the friendship department. I grew friendships, started new ones, watched friends get married, watched them get pregnant (not actually…you know what I mean), watched them start the adoption process, and felt the love from all around. I say this all the time, but I truly do have the best friends in the world. The amount of love, support, and encouragement I get from them is unreal…and I can never thank them enough. I’ve been blessed with an extraordinary family, and an extraordinary “framily.” I’m one lucky girl.

Well…there you have it. My greatest hits of 2016. It was a truly life-changing year, and I cannot wait to see what 2017 has in store for me, and for all of you. Thank you for being a part of my life, and here’s to a Happy New Year!

Until next time,

xoxo